Affair & Infidelity Recovery
After an affair, you don’t have to figure this out alone.
Infidelity recovery for Utah Valley couples — a steady, structured way to rebuild trust and decide what comes next. In person in Provo and Springville, or online across Utah.
Call or text anytime. We respond to texts by phone.
The ground just dropped out
Discovering an affair is one of the most disorienting things that can happen in a marriage. One day the relationship made sense. The next, you’re questioning what was real and what wasn’t.
The betrayed partner can’t stop the thoughts, the questions, the images. The partner who strayed often feels shame, defensiveness, and a desperate urge to move on before the other person is ready. Both of you are in pain, and the usual ways you’d comfort each other are the very thing that broke.
Affair recovery in Utah Valley starts here: not with a verdict, but with a way through the part that feels impossible to survive.
What infidelity recovery actually looks like
Healing after betrayal isn’t one conversation. It moves through stages, and trying to skip them is what keeps couples stuck for years.
1. Steady the ground
First we stop the freefall. We set a few basic agreements, end the contact that needs to end, and make room for the betrayed partner’s pain without it flooding every hour of the day.
2. Make sense of what happened
Not to excuse it — to understand it. What was missing, what was avoided, what each of you was carrying. This is hard, honest work, and it’s where real change starts instead of empty promises.
3. Rebuild trust, in steps
Trust comes back through consistent, visible actions over time — transparency, follow-through, and the betrayed partner setting the pace. We give you a concrete way to do that instead of hoping it heals on its own.
This work is grounded in the Gottman Method, which has specific, researched tools for recovering from an affair. It gives us a map for territory that otherwise feels bottomless.
You’re not the problem. The wound is real, and it can heal.
Plenty of couples assume an affair is the end. It doesn’t have to be. Marriages can and do come back from infidelity — not by pretending it didn’t happen, but by facing it together with help.
And if you’re not sure you even want to try, that’s okay too. When one of you is leaning out, our discernment counseling helps you find clarity before you commit to the work. If you’re both in, our couples therapy carries it forward.
Faith, when it matters to you
For many couples, an affair isn’t only a broken relationship — it can shake what they believe. If faith is part of your marriage, I can hold that weight with you and work within what you believe, not around it. And if faith isn’t central for you, none of this is required — you’re welcome exactly as you are.
How we start
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Call or text
Tell me what’s happened. I’ll help you take the pressure off the next 48 hours and find a time soon.
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Come in together
We steady the ground and make sense of what happened — no blame pile-on, no rushing the hurt partner.
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Rebuild, step by step
We give you a concrete path to rebuild trust and decide your future with clear eyes.
Common questions
Can a marriage really survive an affair?
Many do — and some come out stronger. It takes honesty, time, and the right structure. We can’t promise an outcome, but we can give you a clear process instead of guessing your way through the worst weeks of your marriage.
We just found out. What do we do right now?
The first days are chaos — that’s normal. Don’t try to settle everything tonight. Reach out, and we’ll help you steady the ground first: stop the bleeding, set a few basic agreements, and make a plan before you make any permanent decisions.
Will you tell us to stay together?
No. That’s not my call to make. My job is to help you understand what happened, rebuild safety, and decide your path forward with clear eyes — together. If you’re not even sure you want to try, discernment counseling may be the better starting point.
Do you do affair recovery from a faith perspective?
I can. If faith matters to your marriage, we’ll work within what you believe — no sermons, no agenda. And if faith isn’t central for you, you’re just as welcome.
Is there affair recovery near me in Utah Valley?
Yes. We meet in person at Coronado Wellness in Provo and Springville, and online anywhere in Utah. Many couples prefer online for something this private.
You don’t have to decide everything today.
You just have to take the next step. Call or text and we’ll find solid ground together.